Dilli Ki Ladki....

Hi Friends,
I was just chatting with one of my friend when a word striked "dilli ki ladki". The conversation was about a myth or a fact that one should not get into any kind of relationship with a "dilli li ladki" as she is not worth it. Even i' ve been listening to this phrase for a long time now even when i did not belong to Delhi. I get to hear this every now and then. I am here in Delhi for about four years now, still i have not met a unique gal (in any senses), i mean i've met so many gals and i find Delhi gals no different.

When i was planning to work in Delhi, i heard that Delhi gals are really fashionable and they also have got very open mind and when i came here, i found that true, however, i don't find anything bad about it. Honestly speaking, I do't see girls wearing revealing clothes that often and even if they wear, what's wrong in it???? don't we keep lookin for these kind of faces(figures??). answer yourself, not to me.

Our thoughts can make a girl naked, even if she is wearing a saree and rape a lady no matter if she is a nurse or a bhajan singer. There are countless as*****ls who keep looking for lady's body part no matter if it is hidden or revealed and whevener they get time to think they rape those ladies numerous times in their thoughts and we all know how and why.....so "how" they do it, it's something i can't discuss here however there are numerous reasons behind "why"..

Human Being has invented the term "Hypocrit" and every human being himself of herself is an example of Hypocrism. Everything which we have is "good", Everything which we don't have is "better" and Everything which we want to have but can't get is "worst". Same thing is applicable if we talk about the people around. We always tell our daughters, wives or sisters not to be with the girls who are "open", only wear backless tops or can be found in their shorts, but whenever we get a chance, we never miss on getting cosy with them. We always want to sleep with a girl like this however when it comes to getting married, we always want a sati saavitri, homely and most important of all a "virgin" girl.

Most of the times we talk in abusive language without noticing if there is any lady around(which is okay). But if we find a girl doing the same or if couple of girls talking about any guy or about sex, we always get sure that "yaar ye ladki toh chaalu hai"(which is not okay).In the same way, few men have got a really decent habit of commenting on every lady walking on, but if a girl reverts in the same way she becomes a "slut" straight away.

What's a big deal if a girl wear short skirt, don't we have two legs, why do we let our eyes pop out if a girl smokes, does cigarrette enhance boys' lung's performance. If a girl looses her senses after getting drunk, does a boy get better concentratation after boozing????????

"Dilli Ki Ladki" is nothing but a mindset coz if something is wrong, then it's wrong for whole mankind and if it's something right then it's right for all of us, regardless of sex and cast and locality. Above all nothing is right or wrong but things can only be different. What we think is right, might not be right for others and what we think is wrong, can be right for everybody except us. This might be a bit confusing, however you would be able to understand it only if you understand the intention of this post and not the content.

So let's look everything in a positive way, rather than cribbing about the things which don't even exist.

Cheers......