These Three Words.....

Hi Friends,


Because of few of my last posts in which I have tried and put across the ground reality of  “love” and the “Love Marriage” , I can sense that few of my readers might think that why this jerk is being nasty about the things he has done but still does not want others to do, So I would like to reply it in my good old manner , This is again something which I read somewhere.........

“An idiot is a person who makes a mistake and then learns a lesson, But an Intelligent is someone who watches others making mistakes and learns from it.”

That's why I have always thought that I am the only stupid bloke in my past, present and probably future gang, who keeps on setting examples (or making mistakes), so that others can learn from it and can become one which I could not be and that is “Intelligent”.



So my friends, today I am going to share one more “GYAN” about something which has completely screwed our generation, The deadliest three words “ I Love You”....... If you have been into a relationship, or you unluckier if you still are in one, Then you need to keep in mind that these three words are expected from your mouth every now and then but if you are expecting “ I Love You too” everytime, Then my friend you are digging your own grave and asking for something too much and too dangerous. As not only the reply but also the situation of the reply can get you into a big time trouble or in a traumatic condition.


Here goes my “KATHA”.......


Gone are the days when my “I love you” would evoke an echo from my wife. I say echo because she would give me that romantic look and say “I love you.” It is a totally unrelated thing that as an afterthought, she would add “too”…meaning “I love you too”.

Now, When we are married for two and half years , things are changing. “I love you” no longer gets me romantic looks. They no longer get me similar meaning, if not similar sounding words.

Wouldn’t have put it up for the World to see, had it not been for what happened few days back. I was leaving for office, and as I have learnt from the Hindi movies , it is alright to kiss your wife when leaving for office , so I held her close and kissed her good bye. Before we parted, I softly whispered into her ears: “I love you”.

“Will you be recharging my cell phone in the evening?”.........that was a reply i guessed.

For a moment, I thought maybe she hadn’t heard me say “I love you”…but the sweet thing that I am, as I just love akon's song “I took the blame on me” so I took the blame by thinking that maybe it was my mistake and I hadn’t said it loudly enough. I whispered again: “I love you”.

“I know, but will you be recharging me cell phone today as I am just not feeling to go out just for a recharge!”........ yes that was the reply infact.

There was a time when my “I love you” would get really positive response. So positive that at times I would be forced to call up my boss and say I would be coming in late. Over the last two and half years, the quality of responses has been dwindling. Here is a list of responses that I got (I have given it date-wise so that the married among the readers could benefit, and who are not married can be proud of being single).


Important: We married on 2nd September 2007


December 25, 2007

Me: I love you
Wife: I love you too!

July 30, 2008:

Me: I love you
Wife: I love your hair-style.

September 05, 2008

Me: I love you
Wife: I love your voice over the phone.

December 11, 2008:

Me: I love you
Wife: I love it when you call me!

February 01, 2009:

Me: I love you
Wife: I love your shirt.

April 20, 2009:

Me: I love you
Wife: When will you come home in the evening?

(Notice how the responses have changed from personal to situational)

May 14, 2009:

Me: I love you
Wife: Will you call up your parents today? You haven’t spoken to them in the last three weeks.

July 09, 2009:

Me: I love you
Wife: Will you stay back home today, I need to be out with my friend A****.

September 22, 2009:

Me: I love you
Wife:I am going to sleep.


April 15, 2010:

Me: I love you
Wife:: “Will you be recharging my cell phone in the evening”.



So much of the “ I Love You” and non existent “ I Love You Too”.


And thank god, my wife does'nt give a damn to my blog.



Cheers.....